Moving On: Letting Go of the Past and Embracing the Future with my divine counterpart
My divine counterpart, Thomas, and I have been essentially living together for most of our relationship. We knew very early on that we loved being in each other’s energetic fields, and we wanted to be around one another as much as possible because we just felt happier “doing life” together. While I would shower, do laundry, some coaching calls, and have solo journeys with plant medicine at my apartment, I hadn’t spent the night there by myself in ages. However, since we’ve recently decided to get married, it finally became crystal clear that it was time for me to let go of my Venice bungalow court apartment and officially move in together.
Thankfully, we only live a five-minute drive or 15-minute walk away from each other, so the move so far has been relatively painless. We haven’t had to hire movers, and I’m packing up a little bit each day. That being said, relinquishing this place, where I’ve done so much healing work and growing, has been really intense! I have mixed feelings about the whole thing.
On the one hand, I am grateful and filled with happiness when I think of my time in this magical apartment. It's a 20-minute walk to Venice Beach, and it was the perfect place for me to land once I moved back to the West Coast after several years working in the independent school world, living in multiple places in DC and Northern Virginia, experiencing several relationship breakups, and freezing my eggs. Moreover, I met Thomas through my neighbor and very good friend, Andrea, at her birthday party in December of 2021. So, it was all meant to be. I have so many fond memories of this place, and it’s by far my favorite place I’ve ever lived in by myself.
On the other hand, I am also very sad to leave. But the truth is, I’ve been slowly leaving for the past year or so. As I’ve been going through my possessions, deciding what I'm going to keep and what I'm leaving behind, it's wild to face the fact that this chapter of my life is finally over. I’m so excited to start this new adventure with Thomas. The energy has been building, building, and building to the point where making our union official with the support and blessing of our loved ones and celebrating with them felt like the next natural and exciting step along our journey together. It really feels like we are stepping through a portal together onto a new timeline of life experiences where we are continuing to break ancestral patterns (we literally have a “yod”, which is an ancestral healing configuration, in our composite astrology chart) and create a legacy together as a team.
Moving can be a difficult and emotional process, especially when it involves leaving behind a place that holds so many memories and has been a source of healing and growth. Letting go of my this apartment as I prepare to move in with Thomas has been a profound energetic shift along my life path. However, I'm beyond thrilled for this new chapter of my life with him. We've been building towards this for a while, and it’s time for someone else to enjoy this place. I have outgrown it and it’s time to move on.
As I pack up my belongings and prepare to move in with Thomas, I'm reminded of the importance of letting go of the past and embracing the future. Even though change can be uncomfortable, it's a necessary and beautiful part of life, and I'm grateful for the opportunity to embark on this new life adventure with the person I love.
Peace & love,
Heather
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